Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Ralph Brandon Gosinheimer, 1931-2010


Hello again, Ms. Viv 'Nim Fanatics:

Yesterday afternoon, I challenged myself like never before to write a blog about the passing of Ralph Brandon Gosinheimer. Since yesterday's blog, I received all sorts of comments and well-wishes from my fans. Some of you have even sent personal condolences to me, which I thought was very sweet. I must admit, though, that my favorite response overall was: "OH, LORD JESUS, NO—NOT RALPH!!!" (LOL!)

Okay, as I promised, here is the obituary for our late brother and friend, Ralph Brandon Gosinheimer.

Ralph Brandon Gosinheimer was born on March 17, 1931 in New York City, New York to Terrence and Gladys Gosinheimer, the youngest of three children. Affectionately known as “Ralphie” by his family, he attended Big Apple Elementary School, and then attended Empire State High School, where he graduated the seventeenth of his class.

After high school, Ralph set out to work as a construction worker. In 1953, he met and fell in love with Charlotte Renee Johnson. A year later, the two were joined in holy matrimony. To this union, two lovely daughters were born. After his youngest daughter got married, Ralph and Charlotte decided to leave the busy city life of New York City, and made their permanent residence in Atlanta, Georgia.

Ralph was described by many as an excited, happy-go-lucky individual. He was always positive and upbeat, even when circumstances and challenges crossed his path. His motto was: “Eh, I ain’t worried about it.” Ralph’s biggest claim to fame was witnessing his two daughters get married to two respective responsible young men. The even bigger blessing, according to Ralph, was helping celebrate the 30th wedding anniversaries of his daughters and their husbands, both of whom he christened as the sons he always wanted.

On Monday, November 29, 2010 at 12 noon EST, Ralph was called from labor to reward at the age of 79 years old. His parents and siblings preceded him. Ralph leaves to cherish his precious memory: his loving wife of 57 years, Charlotte Renee; his daughters Angela Margaret (Stansfield) of Atlanta, and Susan Ariel (Douglas) of Los Angeles; his sons-in-law Frederick Stansfield and Bret Douglas; and a host of grandchildren, nieces, nephews, relatives, and friends.

We’ll be seeing you again, Ralphie—take care up there!

Monday, November 29, 2010

Celebrating Ralph Brandon Gosinheimer


Hey there, Ms. Viv 'Nim Fanatics:

In today's blog, I'm taking a different approach.

The toughest thing about being a fictional author is having to retire a character, especially when there is such a close bond betwixt the two. However, it had to be done.

I regret to inform you that Ralph Brandon Gosinheimer passed away today at 12 noon EST in Atlanta, Georgia. He was 79 years old.

Ralph had a peaceful transition, as his wife Charlotte was right there by his side. They had just shared another Thanksgiving holiday with family this past weekend. Ralph said on "Turkey Day" that if he were to go to Glory, he would go a happy man. Well, this afternoon, Ralph kissed his wife and said, "I'm going home today... I'm ready." Charlotte said that she had to be by Ralph's side and hold his hand, just to make sure that he made it to Heaven safely.

"He was really ready to go," Charlotte said bittersweetly. "When he took his last breath, I squeezed his hand and kissed it, then I placed it on his heart. I'm not worried none because I'll be seeing him again when it's my turn."

Ralph and Charlotte got married in 1953 at a little church in New York City. After their two daughters graduated from college and found their respective husbands, Ralph and Charlotte moved to the simpler life in Atlanta in 1981.

Homegoing services for Ralph Brandon Gosinheimer are scheduled for Saturday, December 4, 2010. Details will be forthcoming all this week.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Fellow Chickadee & "Southern" Californian


Seeing as how Thanksgiving falls on November 25, 2010, it got me to thinking about a special little Chickadee. Ladies and Gentlemen, allow me to introduce to you, Anna-Jane Overton.


Anna-Jane Overton was born on November 25,1986 in Houston, Texas, to Keith and Donna Overton. The older of two children, Anna-Jane has one sister, Victoria Lynn.

Anna-Jane’s family moved to Southern California when she was five years old, but despite this, Anna-Jane has kept her Texas accent. From the time she was a preschooler, she has always started off a conversation with, “Hi, y’all!” Anna-Jane attended Wiley L. Sapp Elementary School as a kindergartener, and formed a friendship with fellow November baby Nikki Douglas. These two have been best friends ever since kindergarten.

After high school, Anna-Jane attended and graduated from University of Houston in 2008 with a Bachelor’s Degree in Journalism. She is currently a feature writer for the Culver City Gazette, where she has a weekly column entitled, “Anna-Jane’s Corner.”


MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:
Surprising Nikki at her graduation from Tennessee State University.

MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT:
Barbara sent me a funny text message and I forgot that I was in the library.

FAVORITE ACTOR: Matt LeBlanc

FAVORITE ACTRESS: Jennifer Aniston

FAVORITE SINGER: Ralph Tresvant

FAVORITE TV SHOW: Friends

FAVORITE MOVIE: Anchorman (I’m sorry, but that movie cracked me up!)

FAVORITE ATHLETE: Kristi Yamaguchi

FAVORITE CARTOON: Tiny Toon Adventures

FAVORITE COLOR: Orange

FAVORITE FOOD: BBQ Ribs

FAVORTE ICE CREAM: Chocolate Chip

SECRET TALENT: I’m pretty acrobatic.

IN MY FREE TIME, I LIKE TO:
Hang out with the Chickadees and write in my diary.

IF I COULD’VE DONE IT DIFFERENTLY:
I would’ve attended TSU with Nikki.

MY ROLE MODEL(S) GROWING UP:
Mr. Clark Kenneth Jones, my kindergarten teacher.

THE BEST ADVICE EVER GIVEN TO ME:
If you have a best friend, then you have a true treasure.

SOMEONE WHO SHARES MY BIRTHDAY:
Joe DiMaggio, Ben Stein, John Laroquette, Amy Grant, and Christina Applegate

MY DREAM/GOAL IN LIFE IS TO:
Be the best in all that I do.

THREE WORDS TO DESCRIBE ME:
True-To-Life, Down-To-Earth, Easy-Going

MY BEST FRIEND (ACE-BOOM-KOOM)
Nikki, Barbie, Diane, and Andrea.

MY FAVORITE PLACE TO VISIT:
My hometown of Houston, TX.

IF I HAD ONE WISH:
I would relive my college graduation.

SOMETHING INTERESTING ABOUT ME:
Ever since I was five years old, I’ve been wearing a locket with a picture of my parents, grandparents, and baby sister.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Jessica Dawn, A Woman After My Own Heart!


Hello, Good People!

I know it's been a minute since my last blog, but y'all know that I couldn't let the month of November go by without a posting.

Today, I would like to introduce a character that will make her debut in Ms. Viv's upcoming autobiography. Allow me to introduce to you, Miss Jessica Dawn Torres!


Jessica Dawn Torres was born on July 25, 1982 in Los Angeles, California, to Antonio and Valerie Torres. She is the oldest of three children; she has one younger brother Eduardo, and one baby sister Alicia.

A graduate of University of California at Irvine, Jessica earned her Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology, with a minor in Education. She immediately entered graduate school to earn her Master’s Degree in Sociology. Jessica currently works as the assistant director at the Children’s Center of Culver City, where she also tutors children in Mathematics and English. She is affectionately known as “Miss Dawn” to the little ones; they absolutely adore her.

Jessica was always an upbeat, friendly soul. Her parents say that when she was three years old, Jessica would smile and greet everyone she came across. A natural nurturer, Jessica loves children and hopes to one day have children of her own. In her spare time, Jessica enjoys shopping at the mall, going to the beach, bowling, and babysitting her niece Victoria. Jessica also remains hopeful in that one day, The Lord will bless her with the man of her dreams.

MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT:
I have two moments. The first one would have to be the day that my niece Victoria was born. The second one would have to be when I coached the little ones in a baseball game, and treated them to pizza and ice cream after they won.

MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT:
Let’s just say that I learned the value of a dollar when I was 21 years old.

FAVORITE ACTOR: Will Smith

FAVORITE ACTRESS: Kimberly Elise

FAVORITE SINGER: Michael Jackson

FAVORITE TV SHOW: Fresh Prince of Bel-Air

FAVORITE MOVIE: Lean On Me

FAVORITE ATHLETE: Terrell Owens

FAVORITE CARTOON: She-Ra

FAVORITE COLOR: Turquoise

FAVORITE FOOD: Philly Chicken Cheesesteak

FAVORTE ICE CREAM: Rainbow Sherbet

SECRET TALENT: I love poetry, so I write poems.

IN MY FREE TIME, I LIKE TO:
Have “Auntie & Niece” moments with my niece Victoria.

IF I COULD’VE DONE IT DIFFERENTLY:
I would’ve thought before I acted.

MY ROLE MODEL(S) GROWING UP:
My mom and my grandmother.

THE BEST ADVICE EVER GIVEN TO ME:
K.I.S.S.--keep it simple, sweetie!

SOMEONE WHO SHARES MY BIRTHDAY:
Matt LeBlanc, Walter Payton, and Estelle Getty

MY DREAM/GOAL IN LIFE IS TO:
Find the man who is after my own heart.

THREE WORDS TO DESCRIBE ME:
Adventurous, Ambitious, and Altruistic

MY BEST FRIEND (ACE-BOOM-KOOM)
Amanda Kensington, my college roomie.

MY FAVORITE PLACE TO VISIT:
The Beach.

IF I HAD ONE WISH:
I get the feeling that my wish is coming true before my very eyes.

SOMETHING INTERESTING ABOUT ME:
I’ve been a wrestling fan ever since I was five years old. My all-time favorite wrestler is the Million Dollar Man, Ted DiBiase.