Thursday, April 19, 2012

Pastor Rich's Reflections of Sylvia E. Douglas


Happy Thursday, Ms. Viv ‘Nim Fanaticals!

In today’s blog, we get to hear from the Rev. Stanley D. Richardson, pastor of First Baptist Church in Culver City, California. Pastor Rich has a vested interest in celebrating the life of the late Sylvia E. Douglas, mainly because one of the members of the flock happens to be Ms. Syl’s youngest son Bret.

With that said, here are Pastor Rich’s comments.

Greetings to one and all!

I want to first of all state for the record that I loved Mama Syl—that was my nickname for her whenever she visited from Minnesota. At the risk of using a cliché, Mama Syl was as sweet as apple pie. One smile from her, followed by a hug, and you knew that you were loved. To be honest, Mama Syl reminded me a lot of my mother; she was sweet but stern, she wasn’t phony, and she loved life.

When I first met Mama Syl, it was in early March 1987. She was all excited because her youngest grandchild Nikki (who was only four months old at the time) was about to be blessed. Miraculously, I had performed double duty—I gave a sermon and I performed the blessing of Little Miss Nikki. As is custom in church, once service had ended, everyone wanted to socialize with me. Almost like the woman in Luke 8:43-48, Mama Syl pushed her way through the crowd and gave me a hug. When I turned to face her, she looked at me with that beautiful motherly smile and said, “I just want to thank you for lettin’ God use you. I see why my son Bret speaks so fondly of you.”

I smiled and hugged her back, and said, “Well, God bless your heart.”

Whenever Mama Syl was in town, I had to acknowledge her, as though she was a celebrity. She would humbly stand up and wave, then blow me a kiss—this was her routine every time she came to visit.

Sometime in July 2011, I was informed that Mama Syl had had a visit to the hospital, but was released the same day and was sent home. I called her to see how she was doing, and she lit up like a Christmas tree. If you all could’ve heard the joy in her voice… one of the things she said was: “I’m gonna tell all my friends that my baby boy’s pastor all the way in California had called to check on little ol’ me!”

Now, Heaven has another angel in the form of Mrs. Sylvia Esmeralda Douglas. You’re never fully prepared to see your loved ones off when they go to Glory, but Paul tells us not to be ignorant concerning those who are asleep. My thoughts and prayers to Roger, her husband of 67 years. My prayers also to her children—Bret, Sandy, Cattie, and Bob. We share in your loss, but we also rejoice in knowing that Mama Syl knew The Lord, and in turn, The Lord knew Mama Syl.

Stay strong Douglas Family, and God Bless.
Warmest Regards,

Rev. Stanley D. Richardson,
Pastor, First Baptist Church of Culver City, CA


Tomorrow’s Blog: Thank You, Syl—With Love, from Ms. Viv

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